Dude, I get it. You're in your 20s and seeing some chick, and you just realized she probably wants to get married and have your babies or some shit. Doesn't she know you're 20 something and not looking for a commitment? You have to focus on your career and like, going to the gym or whatever so you have no time for a girlfriend. You do have time to "date her" and have sex with her every other night, though. You should probably just assume you're correct and send this girl a text ASAP telling her you can't see her anymore before clearing up any confusion about her expectations. Or better yet, how about an email, cause if you text her she might call and you might have to hear how upset she is. Its not that you don't respect her or have the decency to do it in person; there's just no way you can do it face to face because she'll be too devastated and cause a scene and go all psycho bitch in public. I mean, you can't have all those people in Coffee Bean thinking you're an asshole or a bad guy or something. You're not, really, you just know what you want and don't like having to "change" for anyone. Because ultimately thats what ALL women want, right? They just want to try to change you and spend all your money and they like, expect shit from you. She'll probably eventually trick you into getting her pregnant or something too so really you should just end it now. Don't forget to tell her it's not her, its you. Chicks love that cause it pretty much validates the entire relationship. Oh, and make sure you say you want to stay friends so she feels better about the whole thing. Closure, man. Also make sure you wait at least 2-3 weeks until you start texting her after 11:00PM for a booty call. I mean, you did tell her you want to be friends still so she'll probably be okay with that. Never change.
Love,
Jess
get it girl
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